This morning as I was about to let my 2 year old out of the naughty corner, he apologized. He said, "I'm sorry Daddy."
Being the strict disciplinarian in the family (More like being afraid that the disciplinarian might discipline me...) I looked at him and said, "I'm sorry for...," And I honestly expected him to finish the sentence with something like "hitting."
He looked at me and said, "I'm sorry for, five, six." It's truly hard to discipline children when laughing hysterically, and I have a feeling they know that.
Not to be outdone, my four and half year old has been asking questions like, "When I get married will you buy me a pretty dress," and "When will I have a baby in my belly like Mommy?"
But yesterday she really went all out.
"Daddy? why don't Grandma Tammie and Grandpa Art live together like Grandma Shelley and Grandpa Joel?"
This is one of those moments when you wish you could call timeout and check with a child psychologist before answering. I explained that sometimes people who love each other realize that they can be happier when they are not together, so they agree to be apart because they each want the other one to be happy.
To be perfectly honest, I felt like a genius when I came up with that one.
But she had follow up questions.
Two follow up questions.
"If Grandpa and you and Mark and Adam are all out of the house, shouldn't grandma move to a smaller place?"
My mom is never leaving that house- though I've been telling her for four years that it's financially irresponsible to stay there.
"Is grandpa sad that Grandma's not around?"
Honestly- yes.
And it occurred to me that while children haven't learned advanced logic, they intuit basic functions of IQ and EQ at the most fundamental level. They can empathize with others pain, and they can separate emotion from obvious logical conclusions.
It seems that as we learn more complex logic, we also learn to overthink what we intuitively know.
I think the ideal boss may be 4 years old.
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No rundown this week, but I wanted to share a few recruiting links, and one tech link that could redefine the Internet.
Recruiting
- How to tank an interview.
- The Resume Genome Project could mean that we will start writing our resumes to be optimized for business software instead of people.
- Successful Networking.
- Mark Cuban on the future of the Internet.